If you are going to wash your face and hands with the new cloth of your wife then your wife will say that don’t clean your face and hands with my new cloth take the old one. On the other hand if you try to clean your face and hands with your mother's old cloth she will say that don’t clean your hand and face with my old cloth take my new cloth.

So that is the huge difference between wife and mother. So always appreciate your mother. Love her as much as you can and serve her as much as you can. And pray for her as long as you live. Try to clean her tears.